Basically Ive started a new school and gotten new classmates and ive gotten pretty close friends with a guy in my class. Now he had a I guess ex-stepsister that went to the same school a few years ago and I found her instagram a few months ago and I live in a pretty remote area so we live close, she know some of my cousins so we hung out a bit all of us.
Now mind y’all I’m still virgin ive hooked up kissing a few times but not engaged in actual sex. Anyways this girl is quite experienced with other guys and we’ve only kissed once when I was about to leave one of my friends house where she and some others also were in.
We hooked kissing up a few more times after that and the reason I’m writing this on here is because if it really is a bad thing because for me it really dosent feel like grooming or abuse. I even think I’m the one pushing the limits on these things happening and I’m very on it but I hear stories on where the genders are swapped and the older male gets called a pedo and things as such but I really do think this is an exception. What do y’all think about this?
(Please be respectful I want genuine opinions)
EDIT: I don’t know if I made it clear but I AM the one that’s 14 years old