In my college i am seen as a way too humble/ feel sorry for type of guy because I just smile when people make fun of me or because I don’t speak much, it does not help that my brother is in the same college and so much more smarter and louder, so people keep comparing too and ask why am i so quiet.
When i talk to random friends in college, I just don’t get anything to talk about, my mind is just blank. Also I can’t quickly come up with comebacks when people make fun of me, which results me in just smiling and taking it.
I would like to change this, because i am not actually like this, in my own friends group i am pretty talkative.
So i would like to turn this whole thing around, is it possible? I know we should not care about what people think but still…