I m 23F, I matched with a guy on bumble who is 29 year old and the first time we met it was very spontaneous and after a very long time i really liked someone so much.
We kissed on our first date and then we went home , talked for a week and later had sex.
I came home happy cuz it was good and the conversation were all right and found him really lovely.
But when I asked him for sex next time he said some very emotional stuff about attachment and how this will end up hurting one of us or both
(which i thought was just a lie , and he wanted to get rid of me after the first sex)
So after this we still talk on calls and that too pretty much regularly everyday.
And we we have went on “dates” like met each other ten timea for dinner or walks but ever since that there has been no sexual act.
Not even a kiss or hug.
Just sometimes he holds my hand and walks.
So what’s up w him?
I know there is some love and affection but why is there complete denial of sex.
PS: He is a doctor and studying something further.