Alright, so I’ve been in a relationship with this girl for about two months, and I want to bring up something that’s been on my bucket list for years: possibly having an FFM threesome.
She’s had a threesome with another girl before, and she said she enjoyed it, but she wished that her boyfriend at the time paid more attention to her while it was going on.
I don’t know if she’d be open to it again, and I didn’t pry further into it the only other time the subject arose.
How do I start the conversation in a respectful way, that honors her boundaries and preferences?