We had been friends for 18 years and then she decided to tell my bf explicit details about who I was dating before him, in an attempt to make him distrust me (didn’t work, ended up being embarrassing for her, not me). She did this bc she thought my bf was proposing soon, and she hated the thought of me getting engaged before her.
I’ve been cold towards her for the last month or two, she’s sent me flowers, called, texted aplogising profusely. My bf understandably dislikes her and thinks I shouldn’t be friends with people who can’t be happy for me. I understand his perspective, but throwing 18 years of friendship down the drain hurts. Is it dumb to try to slowly be friends with her again? Like going for coffee and stuff but not having her over?
TLDR: friend of 18 years tried to fuck me over, wants me to take her back, bad idea?