Matched with someone on hinge nearly 3 weeks ago and we’ve had 3 different dates which have been really nice. 3rd date which was last Saturday actually led to me staying over at his and we slept together. It was a nice weekend and there were no awkwardness in the morning after. I mean I could tell he was into me, like from the things he was saying and he was being affectionate without being too full on.
Anyway, he’s just about to finish uni and is completing his last project for it. That is what he is doing this week. In fact he has gone away to some friends to help him do it because he has been struggling with it. Anyway on Sunday evening he messaged saying he had a good time and glad I stayed over (wasn’t originally the plan).
When we first started talking he would message loads like probably too much haha but he was more chatty than he has been this week. Do you think that is because he is busy with his project or something else? I presume the first one which is totally understandable and hence why I’m not messaging him loads ans giving him space which we all deserve. ( Plus it’s not like we’re a couple). I’m probably overthinking things but I just tired of men (ones I’ve dated) that go full on and then back off you cos they get scared🙄.
I presume it’s because he is busy with his project. We have messaged every day but it’s so spaced out that some of it (to me anyway) feels a pointless convo 😂. I was going to just wait until he messages anything back to my last message or just leave it for a bit because don’t want to bombard him with stuff when he is busy. Do you think that’s OK?
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I think you’re right, he told you he has his project that he’s struggling with so yeah overthinking at the moment BUT if this keeps up *after* his project is finished, *then* you have something to think about.