My ex fiance (38 M )and i (32 F) were together for 6 years, during this time he proposed but i delayed wedding for 3 years due to my family issues. After his family were giving him pressure for marriage, i broke up with him because i didn’t want to waste his time as he clearly stated he want to start a family asap, plus my unstable home environment also played a part in the break-up. We broke up for almost 4 years during which he often contacted me but i tried to keep it minimal on my side so i don’t give him any hope. I never have relationship with anyone during our breakup period cos i couldn’t move on. He was diagnosed with depression after we broke up,and it seemed like he didn’t move on either, so we tried again for the 2nd time this year but only lasted 6 months, cos he showed no signs of trying to work it out. When i asked if he ever saw us together in the near future,he told me he didn’t give any thoughts about settling down or start a family.Now I’m confused,shall i let go for real or is it his mental illness speaking or he doesn’twant me anymore ?Any help please