My (24f) boyfriend (27m) isn’t allowing us to have Christmas & open gifts because of an argument yesterday. It’s now December 31st and he’s using the gifts as an honor system and won’t allow us to have Christmas. He referred to the gifts he bought me as a “reward” and because of our argument yesterday, if we had Christmas today he would be “rewarding bad behavior”. The “bad behavior” he is referring to is us arguing yesterday after he was caught looking up porn online when we came to an agreement that we wouldn’t do that due to his previous infidelity. How do I handle this?