Ive been in a relationship with my gf (f26) for 5 years and in the beginning, like most relationships, we were having sex pretty often and it was great. Lately, in the past year or two, our sex life has been dead and i have a very high libido and she clearly doesnt but when i bring up our sex life and how im unhappy with it, she gets upset and thinks that all i care about in the relationship is sex. That is not the case at all, however it is an important part of a relationship for me.
She has been going through some mental health stuff and i understand that can lower someones libido but its generally making me feel unsatisfied when the only sexual experience i get is with myself. Im happy with everything else in the relationship so with the sex being the only thing making me unhappy i dont know how to feel or what to do.
Tl;dr My girlfriend (f26) has a low libido because of mental health and i have a very high libido and we barely have a sex life anymore and it makes me unhappy and when i bring it up she gets upset and thinks the only thing important to me in the relationship is sex which is not at all the case. I dont know what to do/ how to feel.