So I, 16M, was staying over at my girlfriends a fair few days ago, and it was getting heated. Anyway, when it came to sex, I just couldn’t get it up. This would’ve been my first time, and I’m bummed I couldn’t get it up. I don’t know why I couldn’t be erect as mentally, I was turned on, so why my body couldn’t convert it into a physical turn on, (a.k.a a boner), I have zero idea.
Anyway, there’s a chance I could be staying at hers in the upcoming days and chances are, we’ll probably get it on again. But I have a fear it may not rise. I’ve done a lot in my power to try a get a good erection for next time it happens: I dropped unhealthy foods, replacing them with nutritious ones that promote blood circulation (Salmon, beetroots, pomegranate, etc.) I’ve also dropped my vape (I’m aware this habit was dumb to begin with) as nicotine restricts blood.
But despite the science-y side of things, i know it all comes down to being able to block out the nervousness. I’ll be better prepared so fingers crossed i’ll be ok. If any advice could be given, it would be much appreciated.