I have been on and off with someone who occasionally does sex work/cam modeling. We are compatible in many ways, but have yet to be in a labeled relationship.
She has a great job, but camming occasionally is something that is a kink and fun to do for money. We have talked about how it is not something I am comfortable with in terms of being in a relationship, but she says “camming is not something I need” when considering being in a relationship with someone. It would be difficult for me to have a partner that has sexual experiences with many others. It presents a conundrum for me, because we’re not at a point where things are a serious relationship, but I don’t think I want to date someone who cams on the way to getting to the point of being in a labeled relationship. It’s not my place to ask her to stop, but by saying it’s not something she needs, it seems like if we grew into a more serious relationship then it would stop.
There have been difficulties with trust and communication, but overall there is a lot of care and trying between us to make something work.