i (24M) have/had a friend (24F) who deprioritized me and only spent time with me when she didn’t have any other options. when we were friends (2 years ago) she didnt really appreciate me or respect me much but she also wasn’t blatant about it, just kept me around as a friend. i also had strong romantic feelings for her for the last few years, never told her and have only recently gotten over her and claimed my independence (1.5 years of heart break). i kinda stopped initiating contact with her a year and a half ago and we stopped talking. but now after a year and 2 months she is sending me memes on twitter and instagram again and i think it’s a bid for friendship. i don’t think life is going to great for her again or smg. im intrigued about how she is now but im also worried that maybe ill fall in love again, or have to repeat the heartbreak process or that it will be difficult to set a new boundary once she’s in my life again. we’re both highly sensitive people so it’s hard for us to confront each other with these intense conversations. what should i do?
tl;dr friend i had feelings for for years did not respect me or prioritize me as a friend and after 1.5 years is reaching out to me again. i’d like her in my life but don’t want to repeat past pain