I [M31] Attract Lesbians 😐 What Now 🤔

This year, I found out that two of my exes have come out of the closet. One of them is even engaged. The other one said she was still searching. This got me curious so I cyber-stalked (sorry) a couple more. Another ex came out about five years ago and currently married with three kids. She gave birth to two, one hers and one for her waifu. Adopted another. Two of my ONSs/hook-ups are straight-up lesbians and already out even before hooking-up with me 😱

One of my besties said she has noticed this form DAY 1. She did low-key mention this to me before but I sort-of just shrugged it off every single time. She said all of the women that I’ve been interested in or involved with have always pinged hard. She tried to explain.

I don’t really have a type but I do love the (bestie described as homely and not in a good way) girl next door type but (also not in a good way) strong/independent. More dominant type but sweet. Confident but humble. Smart, killer personality, fun to hang around, graceful, mature and knows what she wants from the get go. Still a little bit shy/introverted. Tall/slender (most have been taller than me in heels) is just a bonus (because of legs) though. I’m not superficial.

She said I must instead go for women who dress (make-up too) more provocatively. Curvier women. Sign of healthy estrogen level, she said. Not afraid (just not into boobas and the butt) of her raw, primal (whatever that means 🙄) sexuality. A lot shorter than me. Loud when needed but must submit to me. Sounds tiring 🙁 She said that she’s got the best gaydar in town, lmao.

Really need your advice, my lovely fellow Redditors. At my wit’s end here.