Hello I (M28) and my GF(F25) are together for 5 years
Since we are together sex became more and more rarely , like 3 times a day at the beginning with a lot of kink she was going to me, try to make me horny ect ( having sex outdoor, in the car, ect) to like(now) 1 time a month
but for 1-2 years she is not into it no more , it’s always me who need to go to her for having sex it’s very rare that she want to have sex by turn me on ( i’m a bit sad becaude who doesn’t love to be turned on ??)
last august she stop taking birth control (pills) because maybe it because of that she had not a big libido (in 5 years she try IUD but stop because she had pain during sex , and try différents pills with the same sideeffect no libido…)
Sooo ,
how many Time do you think it takes for hormone return to the normal ?
i don’t notice big change about her libido since august
Every time i try she is ok for sex (1-2 Times a month and it’s because i think about her and try to not frustate her by asking “every” day that i contain myself not asking to often.
But she is still not going to me for having sex
I hope i was clear on my explanation