(I don’t think my friends IRL know this account but hello if you do)
Please forgive the whiny sound that I make from the world’s smallest violin. I (30M) am in the very fortunate position of having an almost overwhelming number (5+) of really lovely women to talk to who have also agreed to meet up over the next few weeks. I matched with them all on dating apps in the same 5 day period after going on a swiping spree. I can honestly say they all have qualities I like and I would probably be attracted to them in real life too. Speaking to several people is fantastic although I am getting somewhat confused who lives where etc. The issue is I can’t help but feel quite guilty about probably seeing several people in one week period. I guess there is cognitive bias, but if the roles were reversed I wouldn’t really mind because that’s the game and you don’t know anyone until you see them in real life. I would also add I have never committed myself to more one actual relationship at a time because I view cheating as abhorrent and I’ve mostly always been in serious monogamous relationships.
I guess what I actually want is acquitting of guilt. What I’m asking is: what do the people of Reddit think of me going on multiple first dates in one 2-3 week period?
TL;DR: I’m going on multiple first dates this month and I feel guilty. Is this warranted?
Thank you for your opinions