I (25F) matched with a 29M who was very attractive in his profile and we instantly connected when messaging. We planned to meet for for coffee and a museum date. When I arrive at the cafe, a tall, handsome and buff man approaches-it’s my dating app date! He had abs, muscular facial features and huge arms. I knew he was attractive but he was HOT which was unexpected. We had an amazing time but I was much more nervous than usual. I recently lost 60 pounds but I still consider myself plus size (I’m 5’4, 160 pounds, size M in clothes). I’m very confident and I feel pretty when i dress up but My clothes hide the extra skin I have on my lower abdomen/mom pouch from having a baby. I typically don’t care when I’m naked with my previous partners and we both enjoy hot, steamy sex straight from a movie but I was nervous to take off all my clothes once we decided to take the next step after a hot makeout sesh, I ended up leaving the bottom portion of my dress on-trying to hide that mom pouch. I couldn’t go all out and do my riding tricks but he still very much enjoyed it but yet again who doesn’t love head/sex… we have plans to meet up in a few days but I’m nervous about getting naked, what if he’s shocked and isn’t expecting so much extra skin, especially considering he’s very into the gym and healthy eating? I go to the gym daily and I maintain a low cal high protein diet but I’m not a gym baddie yet. BTW: it was not pitch black when we had sex so I’m sure he saw me since we made eye contact majority of the time