Not just if its just a crush and not sure which subreddit to post but may just need a place to vent
I (40m) have been married to my wife (43f) for around 8 years and things are almost TOO okay to the fact that it feels like were roomates. We have a 6yo son that we mainly focus on and dont have time for one another nor try to really. I have tried to create date nights etc but shes never in the mood. Sex is basically non existant to the point where weve only done it once or twice in 5+ years.
Now to the dilemma:
I work remote and had a company holiday party get together and met a coworker that really caught my eye both physically and just the way we talked togther. Nothing happened but I havent been able to stop thinking about her to the point where i dream about her. With everyone being remote, we live far apart and I have never cheated on my wife…but i dont know if its due to the lack of intimacy w my wife or just the fact that i really like this crush. Just needed to get this off my chest