I’m (20F) and new to sex. The guy I’m dating usually takes lead and I’m usually submissive. But since I’m becoming more confident I want to surprise him and get on top without him having to tell me but I need tips on how to make it feel good for the guy.
On the bed Is it better to be squatting or on my knees?
Do guys prefer up and down motions or back and forth I.e should I bounce or grind or do a mixture. I think we’re both scared I’m gonna break his dick if I increase pace so can that actually happen or am I overthinking?
Anyways I appreciate any perspectives, tips and techniques. I’m seeing him this weekend I wanna surprise him lol thank you !