My [29f] and partner [36m] have been dating for 6 years.
I do most of our housework, and we always cook for ourselves because of different diets and preferences.
I’m not even sure if I’m happy anymore, but at the same time I’m not sure how other relationships are? Is every relationship like this?
There is simply not enough love anymore.
He never want to spend any money too, which I haven’t had much problem with over the years. Even for new years I spent $100 on a nice meal at home for us. Even for Christmas he was annoyed I wanted us to buy gifts for each other.
After new years I broke down crying saying how my life feels empty and the first things he says “are we breaking up?” “Are we canceling our holiday then”
Then he cleaned the kitchen for the first time in god knows how long saying “I thought we where breaking up so I needed to show some utility”
Maybe I need to give him another wake up call and leave him for good. I feel like he takes me for granted.
Yesterday I cleaned the whole house and he wasn’t even that happy about it, I needed to confirm saying “I cleaned the house for us”
TLDR; partner of 6 years takes me for granted and there is no love anymore.