situation is as the title says. she says that it feels fake, that it is unpleasurable (even tho i always try to use the best ones) and that she feels humiliated by having sex with it. meanwhile i hate to have sex without it, because i feel extremely scared with the risk of a pregnancy.
she’s now on birth control pills and she doesn’t want to have sex with condoms anymore because she believes that with the pills there is no risk nor need for condoms. i meanwhile would like to use both for extra protection.
i’d like to know more about the safety of birth control pills from the experience of you people, how to talk to her about condoms (the importance of their use combined with the use of the anticoncepcional + that it is not humiliating to use them) and also I’d like to know how to not be so worried about pregnancies, since we’re doing everything right.
ps: we only had each other as partners so there’s no risk of stds involved