I know this question gets asked a lot but I guess I am looking for some suggestions tailored for me.
I am a 30F with no kids and no religious affiliation (I feel like this is important to mention because I live in a small Texas town). I’m not exactly new to the area but I did just move back for the first time since high school. I work from home and finding a similar in-office job in this area would be impossible.
I would consider my social skills to be average. I don’t mind talking to strangers or making small talk with a cashier. I have some hobbies and interests such as painting, baking, board games, tennis, golf, arcade games, pool and darts.
I like my life but I do think it would be nice to have some friends outside of my family and partner.
So here is what I have tried:
– googling events or classes near me. All I could find was youth related events
– Meetup. The closest one was 1.5 hours away
– a bee-themed BFF app. Only had 3 users in this area
– Facebook events. The churches have A LOT to offer but I don’t feel that desperate yet
– Reddit subs. None exist
– TikTok search using #friends in ****, Tx. No results
– CrossFit. I cried on day 3 and never went back
– the only other gym in town which I am still not sure if it was a workout class or a bible study group
– frequenting the local bar. I haven’t gave up on this one but I haven’t had much luck either. It’s mostly 21 yo coming in as I head home for bed or 60+ retired men.
I will take any suggestions you throw my way. Please help.