His Birthday:
I bought him a designer man bag, and cooked a fancy dinner.
My birthday:
Took me out for brunch with dad, then shopping thrift at the bins.
Made me cry turned off location and left. Didn’t come back until the next night.
Halloween:
Did nothing.
Took me out for drinks like a week or two later. Idk if that was connected, but I dressed up Halloween themed because I wanted to at least pretend.
Thanksgiving:
Made me cry the day before then turned off his location and left long after the argument was already over. Then got sick the day of.
Black Friday-Cyber Monday:
He’s still sick and didn’t like the soup I made him (normal chicken noodle). Didn’t take a singe bite that I saw, then complained for what felt like 1/2 an hour while I asked if he would like me to make him a new bowl of soup or something different. Left and didn’t come back after I raised my voice to ask once more if he would like a different bowl of soup.
Christmas Eve:
Did nothing.
Stayed home. Did not help with moving or show up for holiday celebrations. No gifts.
Christmas Day:
Did nothing.
Stayed home. Did not help with moving or show up for holiday celebrations. No gifts.
Day before New Year’s Eve:
Spit at me. Called me a bitch. Blasted music past midnight when I was trying to sleep. Freaked out and said he wanted a divorce when I asked him to turn it down. Threatened to tear up my headphones when I asked him to use them. Threw my clothes in the toilet and my shoes in the litter box. Put me in a chokehold face down on the bed so I couldn’t breathe after I used his clothes to clean off my items he put in the toilet water/litter box.
New Year’s Eve:
Did nothing good.
Called me a bitch. Wouldn’t let me go to the bathroom. Spit at me. Cursed at me repeatedly in multiple languages. No celebration.
New Year’s Day:
TBD