His Text:
“Ні —, this is — from — earlier today. I’m flattered you slipped your phone number in the
bag this morning. I DO have a girlfriend, but always appreciate new friends, so it’s good to meet you. I hope you had a happy new year :)”
I’m not really sure how to respond to this. Obviously he has my number because I was attracted to him and his vibe, but I don’t know how I’d feel as the girlfriend if that’s how my partner’s new friend came into the picture. Maybe I’m overthinking it, but a friend of mine thinks it’s strange that he even texted at all and so I can’t help but hesitate to reply!
What would you respond to this, what is your opinion of the text, and/or am I just over-thinking this?
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It’s a girlfriend not a wife……
To a certain extent, all single people are still looking. It’s also possible he just wants to expand his social circle. I don’t necessarily think it’s morally wrong that he texted you….and I commend him for being honest off the bat.
That said, it’s probably more drama than it’s worth….why not just slip another guy your number?
How much did you like him?
I think what he said is actually really polite and respectful of the gf because he brought her up immediately? I wouldn’t pursue anything with him though
Women make men have no friends that are female yet they still contemplate this bs such hypocrites
Wow, such honesty! Props to him for being upfront. I’d appreciate that too in a similar situation. It’s not worth the drama, so I’d just move on and find someone else to connect with.
friend. he wants to use you as a cheating sex friend. Block his ass
You are the side piece “friend”
He’s making you a potential option
I mean he was honest and told u he has a gf.
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Maybe he didn’t want to reject you because he knows how it feels