I just recently turned 31.
I am in great shape – physically and metaphorically. Hobbies include body-building, photography, long drives, upskilling and self-improvement in general.
Earning slightly over 100k and bought a house mid 2023 – I am not originally from the country I currently live and work in, so I am very happy with the results.
I am originally from a third-world country and like any other parents, my parents want me to get married but I don’t have a girl-friend and I just know that I will keep on improving and very scared to commit to someone through arranged marriage at my current state, or even till 37 or so.
I just don’t what the new big thing in ‘2024’ is going to be for me…
I am making small goals, one of them being getting coached and training like a male physique athlete.
I don’t really have a need for intimacy, as ridiculous as it may sound.
I’m a huge fan / listen to topics like those in books such as ‘The Way of Individuation’ which talks about males finding their way in life through journey/adventure and I feel like I have conquered my current journey in the country I travelled and in a way it helped me complete my rite of passage.
Really keen for some input on what I can do to keep the heart ‘wild’.
Thank you!