Long story short: I was friends with a very problematic girl, who treated me like absolute shit, she used to put me down constantly and when I’d speak out she would blame everything on her antidepressants, I put up with her for a long ass time, until one day I’ve had enough.
Ive started seeing her bullshit after noticing how she treats everybody else, she treated them 10 times better, but it would all be much clearer after she started dating this one guy, their relationship lasted for a week and they used to come over to my house.
For example this one time when her and her boyfriend were in my house, she started telling me how ugly I am, and how small my lips are, and that her lips are much more bigger, she wanted to make herself look good in front of her bf, I used to also pay for every single one of their dates and let her take credit, she even made me cry this one time for thinking I took his change, she would also get limit me from meeting up with other girls, telling me I’m the only friend she needs.
On the other hand me and the bf were getting closer, not physically I refused to even hug him, but we pretty much shared alot of interests and overall got really well, again I never had an eye on him, and was absolutely devoted to this one girl, but she noticed that and didn’t like it very much
One night, she exploded and told me that I should stop trying to steal her own boyfriend and that i need one of my own, I did exactly that I kicked both of them out of my house, and block both of them, but the next day her bf called me and apologised, I begged him to go talk to ger but he refused, saying she also treated him horribly and he just had enough of her. And that he was proud of me for standing up for myself.
Anyways I still waited for her to apologise , only to find out that the next day she sent reels to the boyfriend, acting like nothing happened and talked to him normally. The following week, instead of apologising to me, she went to bash my name in front of the whole class telling me I did all of this to steal her bf away. So I decided to move on, and eventually me and the bf started dating.
Fast forward a year later, she decides to talk to me like nothing happened, she even decided to date my boyfriend’s friend, while dating another dude, and mirrors everything my boyfriend and I do, my boyfriend would touch my shoulder? She would touch her bf shoulder. A girl says hi to me? She would straight up hug her and be super friendly with her. My boyfriend and I are hanging out with her boyfriend? She would join in and have a norma conversation with us.
Honestly I don’t want her back in my life, this whole her getting back into my life while pretending everything is normal is just Soo off putting for me, she still acts like the victim, which is super frustrating I just wanted to move on with my life without dealing with any toxicity. So how can I deal with her? What’s the best way to approach this situation
TL;DR: My toxic ex best friend who thinks I stole her bf wants to get back into my life, I just want to know how I can deal with this situation