So I’m 20 and still haven’t got my first time out of the way. When I was 14-16 I expected myself to be sleeping around when I was 20 but that hasn’t happened yet. And I’m starting to get worried that it won’t happen. I’ve noticed that in very out of place every time I’m around people my age due to this cause sex is 90% of everything people my age talk about and idk how to relate to people my age of have a social life without having a sex life. I feel like it’s such a large hole in my life and I’m missing out on one of the biggest things life has to offer by not doing it. Not being promiscuous is also affecting my view on sex as this really big thing that’s a big deal and not just some normal thing everybody does all the time. And this viewpoint makes me frustrated anytime hookups are brought up cause it’s such a foreign concept to me. And I’m afraid not having a big sexual history will affect my ability to not be insecure when I do get a girlfriend and she inevitably does have a large sexual history. I think alot of my internal struggles I need to work on would be solved with a sex life but I’m worried it’s too late to have a sleep around phase. Did anybody at my age go from nothing at 20 to promiscuity at 21+?