Alright so I’m 20M and I’m currently sitting in my room alone on new years with no plans or invites to anything. And it’s been this way since I graduated high school 19 months ago. I look back at that time and realize I have missed out on 1.5 years of the best years of my life. Every Halloween, forth of July, spring break, night before thanksgiving, summer and fall is the exact same with me at home and a dry phone. There’s no hanging out, going to bars with friends, being around women or getting to go to events with people. It’s all just nonexistent for me. I didn’t realize how hard adulthood would be when it came to having a social life but here I am. And I can’t take it anymore
I’m 5’9 140. Idk if I’m ugly or not but I don’t think I’m necessarily attractive. I am shy when I’m around people idk but I’m definitely extroverted once I get comfortable. I really don’t know how to get a friend group now or get invited to things like parties and bars. Or he’ll even just hang out with people. I’m scrolling through stories seeing hundreds of people at New Year’s Eve parties just wondering how they get invited to these things. I’m lost and I really don’t see any purpose of living if ur alone and just going through ur boring day to day life each day with nothing to look forward to. With the new year starting, how can I get a social life as an adult with no current ins to things? Especially when I’m terrified of going places by myself. I’ve considered starting community college and transferring to a university by the time I’m 23 but I’m not sure what I’d wanna study yet. Any advice?