I just need to vent because I’m honestly tired of thinking people are genuine and they’re not. I don’t know if I’m the problem or what. Every time I make plans with someone they cancel, or the stop responding or something of the sort. I don’t hear from them again until it benefits them. It’s happened to me too many times in a friendship and I’m just tired. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I treat everyone the way I want to be treated and it comes back to bite me in the ass it feels like. My friend invited me to dinner last night and just stopped responding after I asked what time. I waited around all day. Still no response or apology for “standing me up” technically. If you can’t make it then just communicate that I don’t understand. I have another friend who I would make plans with just to stop answering the phone at the time we were supposed to meet up and won’t hear from her again until she’s ready to do it all over again. It’s happened way too many times to even keep up with. It happens all the time literally and then it’s with different people which makes me feel like I’m the problem. Maybe I’m overthinking but I just want a genuine friendship in my life. Would cutting these people off be doing too much or am I just being dramatic? I just hate feeling like I’m being taking advantage of.