Recently I’ve been seeing this guy in his mid 40s. I’m a lot younger than him. He’s not particularly the fittest but played sports when he was young so he’s in ok shape.
I noticed that he seems to take a longer recovery after each time we have sex. Usually we have sex about twice a week (3 at most), and he’d cum once and that’s it. Sometimes the endurance is quite short.
A couple of days ago we finally reunited after not seeing each other for 2 weeks, had wild sex, and then he got sick the next day… I was supposed to stay over this weekend but he’s not able to accommodate me because of that. He said he felt sore and achy.
I’m not trying to age discriminate, but does it really take this long to recover after sex in your mid 40s? Anything I can do to help?
Tbh I wanted to suggest viagra but felt too mean so I didn’t.
Edit: Thank you all for your inputs. Yes, I think the physical fit level plays a big part (he doesn’t exercise often). Another background info is that he seems to be horny often but does not necessarily want to (or not capable to?) have sex frequently.