I feel like we have a pretty great sex life. I’m not sure if I’m the best sex she’s ever had and I don’t really care. It’s fun and I enjoy our aftercare cuddling a lot too.
She’s a bit older and more experienced and definitely the hottest person I’ve been with. We’ve said ILY and been together almost a year. I just don’t want her to feel pressured to say something back or for me to seem like some kind of noob.
Although I have to say, she and I have a habit of not communicating due to believing the other person may want/think something. For example, we almost went to a swingers club because we both thought it was something the other person desired. When I brought up all the research I did on swinging, she approached me with “wow you really wanna do this huh?” To which I said “I want to explore your sexual wants even if they make me a little uncomfortable.” Then she laughed and said she does not want to swing and only agreed because she thought I was into it from how enthusiastic I was. We agreed after this to communicate more and I feel comfortable with her. Sometimes, she doubts her sexual ability. I really wish she didn’t though. She’s amazing. Any input is appreciated