Ok so this Friday(tomorrow) I’m gonna attempt and kiss my gf for the first time.(edit: she has consented to it)

Ik this is stupid to ask but should I be nervous? Me(17m) her(17f)
Is there any prep that I should do? And sorry if this is the wrong sub Reddit

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  4. Ask, maybe wear some chapstick, don’t shove your tongue down her throat

  5. it’s okay to be nervous it’s your first kiss you will be nervous but give her a look like look at her eyes and then her lips and then just go for it after that you’ll be more comfortable

  7. Brush your teeth, floss, mouthwash, and make sure you gauge her reaction. Don’t keep going if she’s not reciprocating lol

  8. Brush your teeth and tongue. Maybe a mint right before. Don’t feel bad if it’s awkward.

  9. Brush your teeth and start off slowly with little kisses before you go for the French kiss. It’s ok to share a laugh afterwards! 🙂

  10. Brush and floss! Pop a piece of gum in and make sure your lips have a bit of chapstick! Be gentle, soft and don’t rush. If you use tongue just be slow and soft, no need to stick it down her throat! I hope this helps 😘 congratulations and good luck!

    Pleaseeeeee don’t slobber all over her face.

  11. When you kiss her, touch her face gently. Turn your face slightly just enough so that your noses don’t touch and it leaves the nose for breathing, that’s a must. Lol. Take it slow and enjoy it.

  12. As a female first and foremost DO NOT shove your tongue down her throat lmao start slow with a peck then move on to longer pecks until you both feel confident to start making out

  13. Apart from the hygiene tips here, make sure you don’t have a dry mouth. Look at her lips whenever you get the chance during the convos leading up to the kiss. Right before you do.. eye contact and face touching/putting a hair strand behind her ear with some smiling. Do NOT start with tongue or too much of mouth and try to make out immediately. Start off with soft kisses.

  14. As others have said, make sure you brush your teeth super well. Make sure your lips are feeling soft (it’s not difficult, just exfoliate them and use chapstick, plenty of guides on YouTube). Wear one of your favorite outfits, make sure you shave good so above and below your lips are soft. Tilt your head a little so you don’t bump noses (no big deal if you do though). The main thing I’m getting at is try to look, smell, and feel your best. You’ll feel so much more confident and enjoy it more.

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