8 months in relationship and we are having cool off period

I’m currently dating my bf and it’s been 8 months, recently he cried in front of me because of thought of losing me. Later that week, he was out of control and said hurtful things because he had trauma and was really insecure. I cried and I’m really sad and he does too and he said he wanted to live with me for my whole life and apologise for everything. But my family has lost trust on him since the day he hurt me. I believe he’s really love me but he’s just need sometime. We are in a cool off period. I need some advice that about this relationship and can we reconnect together despite my family got pissed off but he acknowledge and apologise. We are young in out 17