Like, I don’t get the point. All through my life I was shy to talk to people about my life because whenever I do that they react with “Who cares”, “Who asked”, “Why did you told us that” etc.
Sometimes they don’t react that way, but like a few hours later when the same topic is bringed up, they say they don’t remember anything. Bitch were you even listening? I remember everything you said because I focused on you. Who did you focus on?
Like I guess people don’t want to hear about you talking about yourself, they wanna hear you talking about THEMSELVES. Then I do that. But it has to be mutual, right? If all I talk about is you, your life and your hobbies, then maybe you should occasionally ask and talk about me, right? But that never happens. And I feel like your “yes man” when it is that way.
Then I stop talking because of this, and they all be like “Why are you so quiet? Are you depressed? Are you asocial?” and more bullshit.
What’s the point?