I’ve been with my bf for a few months, we’re long distance and have been doing a lot of video calls etc 😉
Last night after we had a really nice time being intimate he said words along the lines of ‘you look lovely but better from different angles, but that’s the same with everyone’. I was in a post-o bliss and didn’t really process what he said but now I’m really upset and hurt.
I’m a bit overweight, I’m curvy, had a soft tummy. I’m not unhealthy, but I enjoy food and exercise.
It’s not the first time he’s commented on my body and I’m starting to think he has some fatphobic thoughts.
He says he loves me but I can’t help think he can’t if he secretly doesn’t even like my curves and shape?!
Should I talk to him about this? End it?
TLDR: my bf made a comment on my body and now I feel really uncomfortable