Sorry if i have bad english,english isn t my native language I(17M) have been with my girlfriend(16F) for 3 months,everything is great but she told me something that really disturbed me yesterday.
For context,she told me that 3 days ago a guy started following her,and she followed him back,then she asked me if this was ok with me and that she would unfollow him if it disturbed me,and i told her that i would prefer if she unfollowed him because both of us didn t know him,and i didn t know what intentions he would have,she told me ok then unfollowed him,but she called me insecure for not trusting her and me wanting to for her to unfollow him was the proof
I don t know if she was gaslighting me or if i really am insecure
Another thing i wanr to add to this post is that whenever she told me to unfollow a girl i obliged and unfollowed her,even classmates or good friends of mine
TLDR:my girlfriend called me insecure bcs I suggested that she would unfollow a guy that we both didn t know on instagram,bcs i didn t know his intentions,but i did the same thing for her when she asked me to bcs i found it normal