For context: we’ve been dating for 1 year and our relationship is not strange to “almost breaking up”.
I’ve told u guys a story a couple months ago, of her breaking up and wanting to get back together (i deleted it). But, I gave her a second chance. We have been really trying to make the relationship better. At least i have. But the fights we had before started to show up again. Also, just after she broke up with me and asked to get back together my grandpa died. So u guys can imagine how confused i was at that moment.
I’ve been kind of sad because of the fights. She takes birth control and always says she can’t control it. I truly try to understand her point, i can just imagine how the hormones affect her. But it doesn’t make having those fights easier. Today, she was really pissed at me (just because) and started a fight. I tried to help but everything i said or sugested she just got more pissed. She says since the beggining of the relationshio that i don’t help her, that i don’t know how to help her. But I really try. Anyway, she got so pissed that she said she doesn’t think we are compatible. I said that maybe we aren’t (i really feel that way sometimes). And she told me i had to make a decision. I told her that we should meet in person and talk about it. And she told me to think about it alone.
Like an hour later she regreted it (we continued talking) and she cried, said it was because of the birth control and because she has the flue right now. I’m really not wating to continue anymore, i’m getting tired of this. And i gave up so much for her… maybe I should focus on myself and career. Do i give her a third chance?