My ex has asked if I will speak to the social worker to share the details of our relationship and explain that he is fit to be a parent with his current partner. It appears to be a thing in the UK for past partners to be approached.
He emotionally and physically abused me. Harassed me for a year after we broke up and almost 3 years later physically and verbally attacked me at a crowded public event in 2023.
He always had anger and mental health issues. Threated his life and his family told me his death would be on my hands if I broke up with him. (He didn’t thankfully).
I do not want to agree to be a reference, but would like to anonymously share my experiences of him with the social workers. I am concerned for my wellbeing if he knows I have spoken badly about him.
Is there an organisation in the UK I can reach out to to share this information so they can investigate if he has in fact changed? I don’t know the company is he applying to foster through so don’t know where to start!