Hi all,
Seeking some advice from y’all, so l’ve been going on dates with this girl for a little over a month at this point..
She has been to my house, sleepovers, etc etc. Recently ! popped the question of what she wanted out of this. I asked if she was intending on getting into a relationship with me. She told me yes, that she would like to get into a relationship with me, but she has had some severe mental health issues and is starting therapy next week. As a result, she says that she would like to focus on getting better and fighting her internal conflicts before slapping a label on our relationship.
I should also mention that she is pretty freshly out of a long term relationship of about 2 years, ending in September/October, although she swears up and down that she is over her ex and that I am not a rebound. Her mental health issues stems from her poor home life and relationship with her mother and father (which, from what she’s told me, sounds pretty toxic) So I asked her, is this a good idea? Shouldn’t you take more time to heal? She thinks that we should keep trying to make it work.
I just want to know if I’m wasting my time here and if anything is really going to come from this.
Thank you!