Hello everyone. So there are two girls. One of them(let’s call her Sarah) approached me first. I noticed she fell in love with me but as I date to marry I don’t think she is the one. First of all every time we have a conflict she blocks me on social media and expects me to apologize even if it’s her fault. She’s always talking about her exes even tho I told her I don’t want to hear any of it, every time a man dms her she sends me a screenshot of it and says “look he’s interested in me but I didn’t accept his advances because I only love you”. Also she has confessed she cut her wrists more than once to commit suicide and every time something bad happens she says she’ll do it again. Now my friends hate this girl and advise me to ghost her.
Recently I met another girl. She’s much different. I’m thinking she is the one. Everything about her is right. Now the issue is I feel like I’m leading Sarah on. She’s thinking about marriage, always asks me what my family thinks of her and etc. She says I’m the only good thing that has happened to her. I feel like shit for talking to two girls at once. I don’t want to ghost her as I think it’s cruel and cowardly. But I also don’t know how to break up with her without hurting her feelings. I’m open to your criticisms. Please give me an advice