Married for 6 years and past four years, I feel like that I became a parent instead of wife. Recently, he did something that really betrayed my trust. I have a lot of pride in handling my own business and financially supporting my family without anyone else’s help. He hurt me by trying make financial decisions without running it by me. I feel betrayed and can’t trust him anymore. In some ways, I feel like I lost respect. I just don’t know how to bounce back from this. He is depressed and I feel hopeless since he refuses to seek help. The only time he does something is when I give him an ultimatum. I don’t want to live my life like this anymore. I knew marriage is difficult, but how I feel like I am very alone and lonely in mine. What have you done to overcome loneliness and hopelessness besides leaving?