I (f18) texted my hookup (M18) (who clearly set a boundary of NO 2 months ago) “are you sure you dont want to come over again” or something like that, I forgot and don’t want to look back at what I said or I’ll cringe.
My friend was hyping me up but now I feel so stupid.
It was 6pm so I can’t say I was drunk. Also, he knows my drinkinhg experience is really low.
What should I say? Should I just take the L? I can’t unsend.
I guess It’ll be a character turning moment for me and If he answers back another clear NO and I’ll know to back off forever now.
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TL;DR: I stupidly texted someone who set a boundary and I need help excusing the behavior.