So, to cut it short: man, married for 7 years, and we are very experimental. We tried a lot of different kinks and fetishes in the past (pegging, BDSM dominance and submission on both sides, lactation, and the list goes on). So – I think at this point we have a very open mind about sex and kinks.
​
Though, I have **one I never brought up**: I would like her to **fart** during sex or even on my face. Don’t judge me, our sexual kinks can be strange sometimes… I have a fart kink.
​
I would still be open to bringing it up to her somehow. But…
​
**The problem:** we had a gay co-worker (we worked at the same place), and we heard this rumor/gossip that he liked farts and had this kink. And at that moment, my wife reacted pretty weirded out. Made some comments like: “Can you imagine that? Who likes farts!!” and some jokes about the fact that this guy would enjoy other men farting on him.
​
That hurt me ;'( but I buried this deep inside.
​
I still would like to bring this up – is there any hope in doing so? Or should I just try to erase this kink of mine? How would you bring up this topic in this context? All help is appreciated!