I(18F) think my mom(46) hates me.
I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I study hard. I get good grades. I do my work before anything fun. I’m polite and respectful. None of the teachers have anything bad to say about me. In my country 18 is still an okay age to throw tantrums. I’ve seen my classmates cry because their parents wouldn’t give them phones, break things when their parents don’t buy them something, etc. I don’t even do that.
She loves my brother(16). He is the complete opposite of me. He just sits around watching TV and gets low marks. His teachers complain about him, etc.
If I made a mistake she won’t talk to me and would ignore me for days (Once she didn’t speak to me for 2 months (She did but that was around 40 words the whole 2 months ), I counted btw). She wasn’t always like this. My dad passed away when I was 10. Everyone says I’m a carbon copy of him from my looks to my character, is it because of that?
I have severe arachnophobia and nyctophobia, she makes fun of me. My cousins bullied me for 2 years because of my country’s version of a quinceanera and she didn’t do anything about it. My brother told someone I hated that I loved him and caused me to get bullied for a year. She constantly shames my career choice.
There’s more but I’m not sure if its relevant but these are the more bigger things
TL;DR: I think my mom hates me because I look like my dad but maybe I’m just overreacting