I (32f) met (32m) on Tinder! We actually had met before years ago because of mutual friends but reconnect in the app. We went on a date and instantly hit it off, the bar we were at was closing so we went to the next bar and continued talking. It was an instant connection but I was being really mindful of love bombing vs genuine connection which I truly think it was genuine connection. Next night he asked to hang again which I was open to. Through the week we texted almost everyday. Sometimes just checking in, some days full blown conversations. Either way we were both being really consistent with our interest. We went on another date and again had a great time. He even kissed me while we playing mini golf. I’m thinking FINALLY A GOOD GUY OFF TINDER! We head back to his house and watch some tv, have some beers and we started to hook up. We both had a total of 6-7 beers each so we had a good buzz going. Midway he just says he’s tired and we stop and go to sleep. Throughout the night he was kissing my forehead and in the morning gave me a kiss goodbye but the communication has severely dwindled. He didn’t completely ghost me, but it’s just not the same. I tend to be a little anxious attachment so I can’t tell if he’s not interested for whatever reason or he’s embarrassed by being too drunk or tired to finish the job.
Thoughts?