I ( 30 F ) has been dating my bf ( 30 M ) since last june. We are from different ethnicities.He’s white American and im brown. I gained like 3 kg during summer and became 63kg. Which is bit chubby with my height ( 168 cm ) after a couple of months i joined the gym and now i’m 59kg. My ideal goal is to get to 53kg. My bf brought up my weight as an issue and if I don’t work on myself to loose my weight the relationship wouldn’t work. I try to ignore that he didn’t just say that but he kept on bringing it up.
Last month i got some acne after eating seafood and the marks are persistent to fade. I do my skin care routine everyday but it has slow progress. So my acne was his second condition.
I got naturally curly hair and i got curly bangs. Everyone love my hair and they love it even more after i got my bangs ( like 2 years ago) he wants them to be gone cause the hair covers my face. I put on a hair band and push the hair out of the way if it gets hot or anything. Thats the 3rd condition
Im a huge fan of anime and cartoons and I didn’t had access to any merchandise when i was growing up. So my day today clothes got atleast one character in them. I wear formally for parties and functions but my casual wear all are cute stuff. Thats his other condition. Change the way j dress up casually.
I dunno how to respond to these in an understanding way. He’s not diagnosed but he does show signs of autism spectrum. All these time i used that as an excuse to ignore these but the list keep on getting longer. I’m a hopeless romantic but this feels like a business agreement.
TL;DR my bf ( 30 M ) wants me (30 F) to agree for certain conditions if i want to continue the relationship.