I posted in r/socialskills but was told “this is relationship and or dating advice”… so please. Someone help me
When I’m with college friends I’m not that uncomfortable. But if I’m with a girl one on one I’m a little uncomfortable when sex is talked about. She mentioned certain sex things and I kinda am like “I wanna try it but I’m a bit nervous”. I never say that but I’m not sure how to go about this. She told me she wants to be honest and literally said “I was a H03 in college” and had certain expectations sexually. I told her I’m a virgin and she basically said that’s fine since she can guide me. I’m just in a weird position since I want to try it but I don’t know how to initiate it. I feel like a stupid fuck. Why do I have to be so socially awkward?? Like if I can be comfortable with a literal hoe that wants to fuck me how would I ever do it with a non-H03? How do I initiate it???? I’m naturally submissive too so I can’t lead sexually! Pls help
ALSO, how dangerous is it to ‘eat her out’ if she has slept with many guys in the past? Like how do I go about asking if she is clean?