. My girlfriend and I started dating officially after 2 months of talking, we met on hinge and were together from November till January. In the talking stage we discovered we had different opinions on several beliefs such as abortion, having kids( she didn’t, but I do) , and religion ( I’m religious and she hates religion) but i wanted to give it a try because she was funny cute and my type in a girl besides the beliefs. During the talking stage we went on dates and had fun together. Laughing, enjoying each others company and each others interests. When I told her I wanted to make it official we had a discussion on abortion to let her understand my perspective on it, she understood where I was coming from and seemed to accept my opinion. We also talked about kids and how she doesn’t know if she wants them but could maybe in the future. Religion also came up and how she is open to going to church with me as long as they are not being disrespectful to any group of people. We made it official and things were going well at the beginning of the relationship. We never argued, always had a great time together, our chemistry was great, and I really enjoyed our time together. Her friends loved me her parents loved me, I thought things were going very well. A week before we broke up I opened up to her about how I was going through some money problems and cried in front of her. She said it’s going to be ok and that I’ll find money. She was supportive and wanted the best for me. I’m making money now. But a week later she came to my house to break up with me. She said we’re too different and she doesn’t want kids ever, she doesn’t like going to church at all, and we would be better off finding people who want similar futures. To an extent I agree with her but I just feel betrayed because she never talked to me about our issues leading up to the break up and just dumped me like it was nothing. I guess what I’m asking for advice on is why did she decide to end it, even though things were going well? We had similar hobbies such as working out, playing soccer, video games, etc. we did differ on ideas however. She is a feminist, more liberal and I’m more conservative and libertarian. She said she wants someone to talk to about women’s rights and equality and says she can’t do that with me. Ultimately I feel she wanted someone who shared the exact same ideas as her. Is she in the wrong for not accepting our differences? Or were things doomed from the start? Thanks everyone

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