Okay so let me clarify. I am dating a great guy, we have only known each other a few months but he checks the box in many ways. Do i love him? No. Have i ever loved anyone? No. Do i care for him though? Yes . Have i been faithful and honest with him? Yes, and i plan to continue been so. He wants to marry me. Marriage is a big deal, much deeper than dating. I love a lot of qualities in him but my major reason behind marrying him if I say yes is the fact that he is rich. He wants to sponsor the rest of my education, and lives a life I (and frankly any woman or man) wants! So no hyprocrisy, no marry for love bs. Tell me straight up, do you wish you married a rich man? And if u met a rich man you trust and care about but do not love would you marry him primarily for the money? We both know that money eases the stress of a relationship or marriage by at least 40%.