I have been dating my bf for almost 4 years now and think the relationship needs to help. Here’s the problem tho, I heavily rely on him financially. I have a job but I don’t make that much at it and have struggled to save money. My bf pays most of the bills while I pay our electric and gas and internet bill. He makes triple what I make and can afford to live on his own but I can’t. Our relationship tho doesn’t really seem to be a relationship and more like we are roommates. He has started to become mean to me with words (he’s never once put his hands on me and doesn’t care for guys who do his girls). I am slowly starting to think it’s best the relationship ends but I am not able to afford it. I have a dog who is am ESA and would go with me but financially I can’t afford to move yet. I am still trying to get my car fixed after just getting it after being in a wreck. I really love him but the feelings aren’t as strong from him. Hell we don’t even sleep in the same bed, which has brought benefits to us both and getting better sleep, but he doesn’t even try to spend time with me. If we go out then he’s protective of me but once we get home it’s like I don’t matter as much. He has a lot of trust issues with me, I’ve never cheated and he has. Idk what to do.
TL;DR: I need advice on how to move forward with leaving bf when I rely on him heavily financially