I’m far from a lovey dovey person. I rarely have emotions good or bad. My husband doesn’t feel like I love him because I don’t show it. We are rarely intimate but TW I was r@ped not long before we started dating so I don’t know if I have a bad relationship with intimacy or just not attracted in that sense. He travels for work sometimes and I do miss him when he’s gone. Any time I do something fun without him I always wish he were there so he truly is my best friend. I just don’t feel like I’m being a good wife and he deserves to be loved. We do have an 18 month old so it is harder to focus on our relationship right now. I’m hoping our relationship just needs more attention. I know some people say “when you know, you know” but if you only fall in love once, how did you actually know that was/is the one?